What does your friend call it? I mean, we all have "birth"days so if we're born by c-section do we have a sectionday? Do you say "my baby arrived today" like the stork brought it??

I agree with OP and others that your friend needs to take a good look at herself - NOT the sort of thing a supportive, decent friend would say and not the sort of person you need to be around. Certainly not anyone whose views you should let bother you. I don't understand how anyone could consider major abdominal surgery and long recovery time as the easy way to achieve anything.