I already feel like I am being judged.

[~Hestia~]

this is the best way for us.

This right here is all that matters No one has the right to make you justify yourself. Unless someone has walked a day in your shoes they cannot even begin to question your choices. If this was me I'm sure I would be doing exactly what you're planning to too

[Kazzo]

This makes me really sad to read. People should be there to support and help you in anyway they can. Who is anyone to judge another persons personal choice that will have no affect on themselves. Your doing what is right for you, your DH and your bubba. I support you 100%.

[Miss.September]

It's your decision and that's all that matters. Tell em to stick it! Whoever is telling you that you should do it any other way probably won't remember how your baby came into the world anyway. We're right here behind you, hun.

[NaeNae]

You know I think the best way to handle this is to avoid all conversations about the birth. It erks me no end when people who have never been in another persons shoes pass judgements like this.

You don't owe anyone an explanation nor do you need to feel obligated to justify a decision that you have made as an educated woman.

A birth is a birth, sunroof or tunnel, as long as both the mother and baby are ok thats all that really matters and people forget this most important rule.

I wanted to say more but its pretty much been covered by everyone else. Love and strength to you hun x

Nae x

[Marlene]

Oh hun, I think I would make the exact same decision! I don't think that anybody has the right to judge you...especially anyone that hasn't been through what you have.