You know I think the best way to handle this is to avoid all conversations about the birth. It erks me no end when people who have never been in another persons shoes pass judgements like this.

You don't owe anyone an explanation nor do you need to feel obligated to justify a decision that you have made as an educated woman.

A birth is a birth, sunroof or tunnel, as long as both the mother and baby are ok thats all that really matters and people forget this most important rule.

I wanted to say more but its pretty much been covered by everyone else. Love and strength to you hun x

Nae x