Hi Jess,

At the moment i'm not in the same situation as you i have only juat had my first bub, but after having a c/s for him it has made me think about the next bub and how i will birth my next child, like you i am swaying more towards the repeat c/s, obviously it would be such a shame to not know what it is like to have a vb but just the thought of the scar rupturing scares the hell out of me . (I'm a big scardy cat)

But already i know what you mean by the some what lack of support, even from family and friends, when i have mentioned the possibility of having a c/s for the next one, most people have said to me just wait and see what happens, they wont even really discuss it with me. But even though i have only just had my first child, if i do decide to def have a c/s with the next one then there will be some organising i need to do to prepare my self (physically and emotionally) for what will be waiting ahead and also the recovery..etc (and i know this will take a while for me to be in the right frame of mind)

I would be interested to know what it is that has swayed you towards the repeat c/s.. I haven't researched the different options thoroughly but i have had a quick look at some of the pro's and con's...

- Sarah