Im in the process of working out whether to cs#2 or vbac.
Im going with the intention of vbac at this stage.

I think I can understand why with your next one you are feeling towards a cs#2.

My DS was elective and (I have never laboured ) and the experience was all good and fine for me. I thought for a number of years that I might just c.s next time round but now that im here Im not so sure. Theres lots of research and mental and physical prep I feel I need to do for a vbac and then theres still no guarantee I wont have another c.s anyway.
That stresses me out and upsets me - not because I miss out on a vaginal birth, but because its hard work preparing for having a baby, and even harder when you have to chuck a previous c.s (with no labour experience ) into it.
I have friends who have birthed vaginally with some absolute horror stories, but I still want to see if I can deliver vaginally.
I have family members who have opted for cs#2 and 3 & 4 & even 5!!!. It went good for all of them.

Augh, its tough isnt it? Trying to figure it all out and do what you believe is best and dealing with fear. Well thats how I feel anyhow.

I know there are other woman on this site who have choosen to have a repeat c.s, so dont worry, Im sure you`ll find support here if thats what you choose to do. Even if its not to everyones liking, they are not you and you need to choose whats right for you at this stage in your life.
Ultimatly we should be supporting each other in childbearing whatever the way its done.