Exactly! I guess what I am trying to get at was I wasn't really sure why the comment about the need to be sensitive to others not-so-positive c/s stories was important in a thread specifically asking for positive c/s stories. There are lots of threads that are out there for women to debrief and to have their stories heard after a traumatic c/s. I wouldn't dream of asking for positive c/s stories in those threads because it would be highly insensitive, which is why I started this one, kwim?
but you wanted to know our positive feelings about c/s hon not births in general
FWIW, there is no part of me that thinks I'm quaranteed to get a wonderful positive c/s experience - I'm very aware of the risks of having a c/s and the possibility for things to go wrong. Up until now that's pretty much all I had heard. And at the risk of repeating myself that is the very reason I was seeking positive c/s stories. Does that make sense?
My rant about traumatic c/s vs traumatic VB was an attempt to show that I feel I am sensitive to others experiences but that that was not what this particular thread was about.
Maybe I misinterpreted the initial comment about the need to be sensitive to others that have had a negative c/s experience. I kinda assumed that something had been said in earlier posts that rufalina had read as being insensitive to prompt her to make that comment?
I'll totally be back to share my birth story - good or bad
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