Hi Jandals

Hope all goes well for you, I thought I might add the tale of my elective c/s to give you another positive spin. For me my c/s was a breeze and everything went to plan... Here goes...

I was booked in for a c/s at 9am (lucky first on the list), arrived at hospital at 7am and was shown to my room and told to get myself all settled in and to change into my gown. The midwife came in and did some routine checks, blood pressure on me and check baby h/b and position. Once all settled, unpacked and in bed waiting to see the anaethetists and dr to explain the procedure. Once all done I was wheeled down to theatre with DH by my side, while all the checks were done on me DH was taken away to get changed and I was taken to have my spinal put in.

As I have bad veins, it took a while to find a good vein for my drip but once found and drip established it was time for the spinal. So sitting up hunched over the local needle went it, wow made me jump as it is like getting stung by a bee, then the spinal injection, didn't feel a thing but the medication took effect immediately and before I was laying down again my legs were completely numb (I'm not too tall so the medication moved quickly). Then wheeled into theatre, but because the spinal hit so fast I started to feel sick so quickly onto the table and some extra meds put into my drip to help with the nausea.

Once on the table it was explained the catheter was being inserted and a wedge was placed under my side to take pressure off my main artery, then the screen was put up and all systems go. I didn't feel much at all, only pressure as they were moving the baby around to get to her. I only knew she was born as all of a sudden I felt immense relief that I could take a deep breathe again from the baby being moved out from under my ribs. Baby was then taken to the resus table to be checked out and DH went over to see her, all o.k although she took 2 minutes to start breathing and cry and she also had a forcep mark on her head where they had to get her out. While this was all happening the dr's finished up with me and stiched us all up.

I was taken to recovery for monitoring, baby was with me the whole time and DH went off to change back into his normal clothes. After 30 minutes I was taken back to my room (around 10.30am) and baby was put on my breast for feeding straight away. After about 45 mins, the midwife then took baby to be weighed and measured but this was all done in my room so once born she never left my side. After spending about another hour bonding with my baby the midwives then came in and gave me a bed wash and helped me to change into my own nighty.

By around 1pm that afternoon, I was getting feeling back in my legs and could move them around and sit up in bed (although you do have morphine in the spinal which last for about 15 hours so you feel fabulous) but of couldn't get up as the cathetar stays in for 24hrs. Next morning after the cathetar is out the midwives helped me to get up and shower, not an easy thing to do and yes you are in a lot of discomfort although I found the worse thing was that my legs were all like jelly but once the blood started flowing back into them I could walk with help. Midwives got me into the shower on a chair and left me to it (it was nice to be able to shower myself even if sitting down) and once finished they came back to help me get all dried and dressed.

By the following day I was able to get out of bed myself (slowly) and was sitting in a chair during the day as it was easier for me to get up and down as you had the arms of the chair to help you. Everyday got better and better and within a week I was able to walk around fine, it just took a little longer to get out of bed.

Just to add, I didn't have a drain and only had 1 stitch in my tummy which was removed before I left hospital (5 days). All up I found my c/s to be very positive and have no hesitation of going through it again. Just a word of note though, after I came out of surgery all I wanted to do was sleep (due to the meds) and I didn't have that excited glow about me of just having a baby. It is completely normal to have all different kinds of feeling after a c/s so don't be surprised if you feel differently than what you expect.

Good luck and I hope your c/s is smooth sailing, will be looking forward to hearing how it goes.