Wow! Talk about Crazy lol.. how is it that everytime there is a thread started about either Csection/homebirth/natural birth/breast feeding/formula feeding it always turns into a **** fight? Why can't people just accept. EVERYONE is different. Everyone does things their own way. I couldn't give two craps on whether the woman sitting next to me is the goddess of mothering with her homebirth, cloth bummed, breastfed, non controlled crying, sling wearing baby. Makes not one iota of difference to me and how I birth. Nor does it make me feel like any less of a mother, or make my birth any less significant. So what's the point in it turning into an argument? Sure debate the day away but I have learnt a long time ago. If you don't agree with someone or something they say, just don't post. What's the point? No one will agree and everyone is entitled to their own opinion. yes of course there are people who come along more strongly with their opinions and become almost 'forceful' with it like their way is the only way. But only YOU have the choice on how to deal with that. If you let what EVERYONE says or thinks gets to you then you'll just end up insane. While I understand people are upset etc. The public flaming and name caling is just not necessary. and im sure the OP didn't want the thread to turn out in that way otherwise she wouldn't of posted kwim?