child birth is a spirtial developement in someone so there for people will be emotional about it.
Indeed it is Maz Which is why I have chosen homebirth for next time, so I get that. But when it takes over your life and how you interact with people for an extended period, it can have detrimental effects. Like I said in an earlier post, we all grieve, digest and dissect. But when we use the negative resulting feelings to blame others for how we feel, then we're on the very wrong track to inner peace/healing. Only when you look inside can you do that, keep looking externally and you'll have those emotions for a VERY long time, and who wouldn't be happier without feelings of failure, judgement and all the rest?