Oh why oh why couldnt I have had a baby normally??? dame it!!!!
Having had my babies 'normally' can I just say.. I have a very floppy belly! So not sure the birth has as much to do with it, but more the big belly & stretched skin!

I know this could be a bit different to what you're describing (having not had a c/s.. don't know much about scars & the tummy around them!) but all I know is no amount of pilates is gonna fix my belly LOL - unless pilates magically shrinks skin? Don't think mine has much to do with muscle at all

Wishing you a trim tummy soon!