thank tobily - i let my sis talk it out she is doing well.. not as upset as she was and i took your advice on about not really throwing comments ... ie.. well baby is healthy etc and let her talk it out.

Onlyone - i hope you didnt take this post as me saying that they are a bad thing etc etc... it wasnt about that - it was purely i know my sister and how she is upset over the whole process, unfotunately not everyone sees the c/s as a positive thing and this is what i needed help for to help her as she definately didnt.