Berry I am sorry that you were judged unfairly. Like I said in my earlier posts I think women who choose c/s should be allowed. I have no problems with that at all, I have supported friends who have chosen c/s in the past and I will continue to in the future. But please be gentle with those of us who have had unnecessary c/s because it hurts us just as much to have had one, for someone to say you didn't need one (which I don't think at all).

I feel like we're all getting muddled up and arguing different pages iykwim? I think the personal battles we are all fighting are very valid, which is why it makes this discussion so hard, because each of us is valid in our own experiences.

*hugs*
Cailin