Charlotte, the only tip I can give you is to sit down today and write out all the questions you want to ask - keep it in a little notepad and keep it with you so if something pops into your head you can write it down straight away before you forget. When you get into the Dr's appointment, it will be easy to forget half the questions you want to ask so it's important that you write them down and take them with you because this is the type of situation where you need to know everything you can about the birth, the condition you can expect him to be born in (will he be a bit poorly etc) so not only do you know what to expect, but also prepare yourself for how you are going to deal with it kwim, and also what will happen after the birth with his surgery and his stay in hospital etc. Perhaps even try to find out who the surgeon will be that will do the op so you can talk to them and find out what happens. If it were me, I'd want to know all of this now so I can be fully informed because once you have the c/s, you won't be very mobile and you may not feel mentally up for having a detail conversation about medical things like this.

Good luck and I'm sure that both you and your little boy will be just fine And make sure you keep us up to date with how you are going.