Hi Charlotte,
I'm having a scheduled cs at the Royal Womens' in 4 weeks time and so far I have found that the doctors have been fantastic in explaining every step of the process, right down to what my partner has to do (hold my hand, tell someone if he is going to faint and go with baby while I get sewn up). As I understand it skin to skin contact is not allowed in theatre as it is too cold for the baby, but they do bring them up to you to touch and cuddle if possible. They have been so happy to answer any questions we have had and it has all been very reassuring. I had a meeting with an anaesthetist where you can discuss any fears about having a spinal and what happens on the day. I agree with the others to take along a list of questions, but if you are seeing the same team we did for our baby's complications (MFM unit) we found they offered a lot of support.
Best of luck to you.
Andrea