Happens ALL the fricken time Tanya, it used to annoy me no end (on the end of the phone at Clink listening to a sobbing mother, whose daughter has someone that enables her to LEAVE HOME at a young age).

In any case - is she on YAL or FTB? A lot of the time you can dispute the payments (ie - she hasn't been kicked out so the payments can be suspended), because financial gain has ALOT to do with the willingness to support another child.