Well, I have just spoken to the mother over the phone and she tells me that DD and her DD haven't really spoken to her about any of it. It's all their planning. She said she would talk with my DD tonight. I also asked her that if DD calls upset that I would appreciate it if she would come in and see what is going on before taking her. I told her I appreciate her support for DD but felt she was a little to eager to help without questioning what was going on.

We agreed that after she spoke with my DD tonight we would get togehter and have a chat.