This is a hard one. If she really doesn't want to go then I wouldn't be forcing her. Especially not to a place where she is being physically assaulted by another child. Ask her what sort of place she would like to go to (if at all) Maybe instead of a big childcare centre she would flourish in family day care. They only have 5 kids in their care and usually it is varying ages. My older kids loved going to FDC before they progressed to preschool. If she still doesn't want to go then it is not the end of the world and she just may need more time at home with mum before she is ready.

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