Dh is not done but wishes he were and in the end I expressed my wish to have our son done but if Dh really disagreed Id forgoe it. (Dh was traumatised by his issues related to being non-circumcised so it works both ways).
My DP was the same and he actually booked himself in to be done when he was 18 (much more painful at that age). His penis looks completely normal (I really like it) and TBH I have never seen an uncircumsised penis (not that I have seen alot)!

I havent really spoken to him too much as to all the reasons that he wanted to get it done. I suppose if we are ever to have a son I would talk to him about it more but we are having a girl (well we better be) so dont have to worry too much about it at the moment.