MrsC I was totally the same...very nearly gave up on cloth cos it was driving me nuts lol but now I have a handful of brands that work so I wont buy anything else just incase lol

Fitteds I find the Cute tooshie or mandy mac ones really good (and they are both OSFM) I just usually use them for DS's big arvo nap cos he ends up with a huge butt but I can trust them for much longer

If youre worried about the post, I have a GK Anytimes I picked up cheap on buy4baby which I can send over...so its not like its one of my new minkytimes lol