Thanks Melinda and Kelly I really don't know why Gemma co-sleeping bothers me so much.Some days more than others.To be honest ideally I'd like her in her own bed, BUT I do not want to force her at all. I guess I want her to lead me and let me know when shes ready. Thank you for telling me it is normal(as stupid as it sounds!). I guess I feel kinda a failure that I can't get her to sleep in her own bed.I know its totally stupid and yes it could be the whole preggie hormones in overdrive but yeh Kelly you summed it up when you said you were nervous to start with and I know thats how I feel. Like I'm juggling plates sometimes!LOL!But I know we'll manage and that what we decide is the right thing and at this point I want bed time to be enjoyable for her and calming so looks like its co-sleeping for us!