Your right there Kelly. Society can be so cruel to us mothers. My Mum was actually the person who said something first about Gemma co-sleeping and I think its caught in the back of my mind now.She said how bad it is for her but honestly shes been a dream since shes co-slept with us.And yep bubs do cope so much better than us with little sleep.Glad I have BB I tell you as I'd seriously be going nuts! Its nice to hear its 'normal' as like you said your told your bub 'should' be sleeping 7-7 every night but life is soooo much different to that!!

Thanks again its nice to have some rational conversation about the subject to put things in perspective again