Thanks for all your posts & help -

we do have a bedtime routine in place;

5 pm - dinner then play
6.30 pm - bath
7 pm - go into her darkened room with 'music for dreaming' cd playing - bottlefeed then lots of floor pacing (she has only recently been weaned from booby but there has been no change in her bedtime behaviour - good, bad or otherwise)

I guess we will get there one day
Laurin