LOL Nelle - I'm the one that tells people I'm preparing for a monster this time around! hehe. Altho DS was a frequent waker, having lots of feeds overnight etc.. he never kept us awake at night.. he always settled quickly with a feed, so I consider him to have been a pretty good baby really.. nice & normal I too was frequently asked if he ever cried! and if he did cry, they'd say they've never heard him cry! We must all be doing something right to have bubs that don't cry. Hooray for us!