Yeah, I don't tell a whole lot of people what we do. Not that it's a big secret or anything, I just don't feel the need to be judged on my parenting. 99% of the time I'm totally comfortable with our parenting, and I'd like to leave it that way if possible I am happy to tell my MCHN, but she's very relaxed, and if she doesn't approve of what we do, she certainly doesn't share that with me. And she's very pro-BF, so she's always happy when I tell her we're still going Actually, come to think of it, our paed was also very supportive of us still BFing, and didn't comment on the co-sleeping. He also said that it's common and totally fine for bubs DS age to be waking a few times a night, and said there's no point in doing any cc etc.

So we must be lucky to have supportive HCPs, because I know not everyone does! LoriRae, if you and bubs are happy, then stick with what works. Like someone else said, if it aint broke, don't fix it Like Sasa said, you will know when it's time to change things, if bub doesn't change them first