Mantaray knocked the nail on the head for me! Well said hun!
And really, if she is going to live to be 99, then one year plus of night feeds is nothing!!
ha ha so true!

You must trust your instincts and do what is right for you and your gorgeous baby! I dont tell many people i co sleep just cause most of them say oh your making a rod for your own back etc! so I now say he sleeps ok and leave it at that!! But like you said if your getting rested and DS is too then its no ones business!

Ds is nearly 9 months and crawling! All i can say is be careful he doesn't fall out of the bed! Unfortunately DS did twice which broke my heart but hasn't again thank god! He comfort sucks at night but not for very long and we sleep beautifully! The only thing is DH is on the couch at the moment cause DS has a cold and makes too much noise lol!

Good luck hun