Thanks all for your support and ideas.

She has the last few days had a nap during the day, which is making it easier on me, but I am still having to wake to her many times per night.
We are now starting the night off in her pull out couch by our bed and she is happy there. Her first feed of the night a couple hours after she goes to bed, I sit up and feed her then she goes back down to the pull out couch.
Then she wakes every hour or so and this is just silly, so she comes back into bed with me.
I think I am just going to have to stick it out and refuse to feed her one of her night feeds and just settle her by cuddling and hopefully she will stop waking for that feed.

Will let you all know how it goes!