ds1's apnea is fine now he had his tonsils out. He had huge tonsils. I am hoping the night terrors are just a phase. dd sleeps ok in our bed at night, though generally she's hysterical unless attached to my boob, which is ok until my aversion kicks in and then the coping factor plummets. But she mostly sleeps ok in our bed. The issue is to let her sleep in our bed, ds2 has to be moved out of it because our bed is too small and I feel its a bit dangerous to have them both in there. But moving ds2 out creates a whole new can of worms. If that little monster would sleep on his own my life would be much easier.

Daytime naps I can't just lie down with dd unless she is willing to go to sleep because she has to be moving constantly. Whoever said boys were more mellow than girls were deluded, little miss needs to go go go and apparently for her, sleep is for the weak.