Hi, it is a tough one. We sort of co-sleep the babies start in the cot, then when they wake we transfer them into bed, which is anywhere from 10pm-1am. What about watching TV in bed??? Oldest is now 3 and he generally prefers his own bed, but sometimes gets in and DD 2 is just starting to sleep through occasionally goodluck wish I could give you more advice. If it is a worry to you and you would like to start to get bub sleeping in there own cot a sleep clinic is a good idea. You don't have to take everything they offer you just what works for you!!!