Sorry ladies, I forgot to mention that I already use a dummy and she has a CD player that plays some soft lullabys. Even if the dummy is still in, she still wakes up . She also feeds 4 hourly so just one 40 min sleep every 4 hours just isn't enough. Sometimes I'm lucky enough to get her down a second time in those 4 hours, but not always.

Just don't know what to do anymore .