Hey hun.

Jesse i use to have to resettle the same way.. was the only way that worked. It wasnt until he was about 6 or 7 months that i could get him to settle on his own. Keira is the opposite.

My only suggestion other than a dummy, is perhaps some soft music. We have a FP Ocean Aquarium which plays a soft lullaby and i use/d that with both DS and DD with great success on resettling. If you havent got something like that, maybe a CD?