not too mushy...I understand what you mean .

The thing with DD, if I try and put her down before she is ready, she isn't happy, and will tell you!!! I'm fairly quick with catching the tired signs, then it's a quick wrap, quick cuddle and then down when eyes are closed, but not asleep (cause if they are still open, she sees me and it's game over!). The whole process doesn't usually take more than 5 minutes. It's just the re-settling. She just doesn't, without help from me.

Well shes stirring now after another 40 min nap .