We have been here over 2 months now and she has been in the her room about 3 weeks now. Just struggling a bit to see why she was ok in the room in the cot, but not in her big bed. If anything her room is more welcoming now as I have sorted out some of the boxes and will be even better when her new shelves arrive. She does not ask to go to the cot, which I would let her if she wanted, she just keeps on saying she is scared of the room. I suppose one option would be moving the bed to where the cot is, but we might have some issues opening the wardrobe at that end.

Have never used a smudge stick, where would I get one of those and how would I use it?