HOW do you girls get your babies to sleep through? DS is 4 months and I get six hours out of him one night in three and seven hours twice, bedtime is 7.30-8 (routine is naked play, bath, massage dry, story, feed and prayers, then lullaby if he didn't fall asleep with his feed), he wakes up of his own accord between 9 and 11 for another feed, then we can be up all night or have him do his big sleep after that, if he chooses to have a big sleep night. How do you just say "ooh, back to sleep" and have them do that? I am having so many issues forcing DS to go to sleep and he just won't go to sleep in his bed, how do you do it?