ps, JAC - how do you use dummy to settle, but not for sleep...? do you mean you use the dummy while you are calming bubs before putting down to sleep, then take dummy out? or how?

i wish she would learn to even sleep with me in my bed, it would be nice to take her back to bed with me for a cuddle, but she won't sleep unless she is wrapped tightly and i have to sort of hold her, and even then this morning that didnt work, she wouldn't have a bare of it. Is there a way to introduce/encourage co-sleeping with the baby next to you? I am desperate for some sleep but by the time I have gotten her down for a nap I have missed the boat for me to go back to sleep, as I seem to be suffering from a bit of insomnia.