Thanks guys,

Marcellus - do you go to bed at the same time as your DS? what time does he go down?
MJ goes to bed between 7 and 7.30pm - when she was a baby she always had a feed then put herself to sleep at 8.30 - we continued this for ages and then she started going down earlier and earlier... i dont think i could go to bed at 7!!! (although some days i probably could!)

Miss J - how did you progress to that - did one day it jsut happen or a slow progression? will i be doing this for months and months? (its been 5 already)