Sorry to hear about your sleep issues. We had those also and they are so horrible because you both get over tired and its hard to relax.

I found that breastfeeding till he was asleep and then putting him over my shoulder and patting his back helped. Then I would put him in his cradle on his side and pat his bottom for a while.

I would wrap Jordan before offering the second side so that when he was asleep I could just put him straight down. We now have a "grobag" that he sleeps in which is excellent. No more wrapping and he is always covered and his arms are free which he likes.

I also found a dummy worked for us. Even though we had to stand with our hands on it as he would constantly push it out, the sucking would send him to sleep with the patting of the bottom.

Hope you both get some sleep happening. You will find something that works for you both it is all trial and error unfortunatly.

Best of luck