Hugs Maruschke, I know exactly how you feel when plans and fertility dont coincide.

DS1 and 2 are exactly two years apart and its great. It was really tough for the first year but is now easy. My kids are so close, it is amazing to watch. We planned on having 2.5yrs between DS2 and Baby 3, but that didnt work out so I hope a larger age gap will be ok if Im lucky enough to have another.