kotare, I know what you mean... in the TTC journey I think we gals are so much more aware of the timing issue becuase we're watching our body signs etc for O, I know my DH doesnt think about things like roster changes affecting BD timing.. then I get an irritated feeling because I expect he should think about it.. but i guess female things are a "mystery" to most men and he wouldn't have a clue probably how much thought we put into these things.

This cycle I *think* will be the right timing roster-wise for us, but he's agreed for his parents to stay with us (from another city) right at my O time, which annoyed me a bit, but I guess DH wasn't to know... and we hopefully will find creative ways around it.

Sometimes I wonder, maybe if we don't have success with TTC by the end of this year DH and I maybe should look into a residential posting for awhile... might make things a bit easier !! Even if it is somewhere like china or something. DH will always work in mining, as he's a mining engineer so that's how he's trained... makes city-based options pretty limited.

How are you other gals doing? Hope we get some BFP success stories among the roster challenges !!! Maybe then we can start up a FI/FO thread in the bellybuddies forums!