Hey Deni,
Did DH apply for other non fi/fo jobs? How did that go?

We have had a few issues with trying to do IVF while DH is trying not to take too much time off work. As our dates were pushed further and further back (we ended up a whole 9 days later than the schedule), DH tried to rearrange work. It really annoyed me because he is always the first person everyone rings to help out as we don't have kids (therefore they expect him to be able to drop everything with a few hours notice) and then none of the people who he had helped out were prepared to return the favour when asked. It was very frustrating - mostly because we can't just flat out tell them why either. His boss knows, and is really really good about it all, so that's one good thing.

It all worked out in the end, and i am soooo glad he made it to the ET as we got some unexpectedly bad results and i was crying from the minute we left the room. I really needed him, and i was very grateful he was there.

I hope the holiday gives you guys some time together to DTD, and fingers crossed you get the result and never have to think about the roster anymore!!