I have been there done all that i was the friend that was not conceiveing easily!
I got preg and was going to be 4 months behind my best friend with her 2nd and i then had a miss at 8 weeks it was very hard at times to be around her and her kids but in the end the love of friendship wins out. She was amazing when i had my miss and needed d and c she came and spent a day with me and got her dh to take a day of work to look after there son so she could be with me alone while my dh was at work.
She then announced her 3rd preg to me at 4 weeks (as we had discussed that i wanted to know as early as she knew) I got upset hung up the phone and didnt speak to her for a week, and she knew i would call when i was reday to talk and i did and now luckily i am 4 weeks behind her with my pregnancy.
The best you can do is dont hide things from her talk openily and support her in any way you can and also intrdouce her to belly belly!! fantastic support for ttc!!




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