Hmmmm me too!!
I have 2 GORGEOUS SPUNKY boys and we are TTC#3 (first cycle) and i would DEARLY love a little pink one!!!! But i'm the same as you - i'm not sure i want to miss out on my most fertile days especially because i have PCOS and only ovulate with the help of clomid anyway so getting pregnant has never been easy for me.
I've heard that avoiding red meat and salt, and having more magnesium and calcium helps sway towards girl.
I might have to head over to that gender selection thread too actually.... (see you there!)