there is so much to do and not to do and the pressure that comes along with that cant be good for either us or our partners. We are not fans of planning what day to DTD so for us we have come to the conclusion that at the end of the day whatever gender our baby is we will love and cherish no matter what.
In the GS thread you will find a lot of different info... but how much of it you choose to take on board and how much you ignore is completely up to you. You and your partner will know how much "intervention" is too much and when the pressure is too great.

There are no guarantees with any method but if you do decide to GS it can be as simple as eating certain types or food or fruit and avoiding others or getting DH to wear either boxers or briefs (depending on gender preference)

And as Kitten said you will love your baby no matter what it is.... in the GS thread everone who has come in has made that same statement. It is a good place for support for the feelings of desiring one gender over another. You can discuss it there openly without offending others who possibly may be wanting a child so much that they see your preference as distubing to them.

HTH.