JellyBean.. I totally agree with the getting what you want if you stop wanting it so much. I have learnt to do that and things have been working out for us.

I would really really really like a little girl so that i can have a mother/daughter bond like my mum and i have, and do things like find a dress her for her ball, be a mother of the bride and of course go shopping, go for coffees, have a gossip etc.

If it does happen and we have al little girl thenthat is fantastic and I will be over the moon but if it doesnt then my next boy will have to wear dresses for the first few month.. LOL.. only joking I wouldnt do that.

I have also thought about finding out the sex of baby #2 so that I wont be dissapointed if we have a boy (I certainly feel guilty about that )....