Hi Wecandoit, welcome to BB!

My story is somewhat similar to yours - on the pill for about 10 years (with lots of forgetting etc but no surprise pregnancies) and thought that DH and I might have trouble conceiving due to NOT having had a surprise after all the carelessness. I was off the pill for about a year though before we decided to TTC and we used "natural" methods of contraception during that year, again with no surprises.

When we decided it was time we were so lucky to get pregnant almost right away, I'm actually due next week. Please don't lose heart, it could happen quicker than you think, best of luck with TTC!