Ahhhh, yes! I joke that sex ed was a waste of time for me b/c I was on the pill until we decided ttc and it took us all up 13 months to fall & stay pg with our DD. I can't see how I would have fallen pg by missing one pill here and there now given how hard it was to fall pg!

Three cycles is not every long to ttc and most 'norma' couples fall pg within 6 - 12 mths. Perhaps look at using OPK's or shettles method, checking your cervix & mucus and taking your temp can be help too. Good luck