TTC DS1 became a chore and DH said I was only using him for swimmers etc it caused fights frequently. I don't think he fully understood how depressing it was for AF to arrive each month.

He was not as rude though as to laugh at me but it is blooming hard as they don't have the same emotional attachment to a baby even before conception. DH didn't really bond with boys even when I was preg until after the birth.

Good luck hun you are not alone, would be easier if we could get ourselves preg!