Nae, I completely understand where you are coming from. After Dh constantly telling me "it'll happen when it happens" I snapped at him. Yes, it will happen when it happens but for it to happen we need to DTD and seeing as though a woman only has a very small window of fertility each cycle, he needs to step up to the plate particularly as TTC was his idea (sorry for making this my vent). We agreed that from O being confirmed until a week after AF we were on his clock and after that we were on mine and he had to step up - doesn't always go my way but better than nothing. If you find the answer to get a DH to be more involved and understanding, share it with the rest of us. Until then,
When we were trying for DS it did take a while. I was off contraception for 11 months. Trying for about half that.
FWIW it was the month we dtd every night I concieved him! Towards the end I was soooo over it!
Men aren't that interested in the finer details, thats all. When you know everything & keep talking about it, they get tired of it. They just want the fun stuff.
Every 2nd day should be enough. Try different things Have a shower together, go for a walk outside, get someone to watch DD while you both go for milk
Be sneaky... makes it more fun
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Have a shower together, go for a walk outside, get someone to watch DD while you both go for milk 
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