Thanks all..kind of got answers?

went and bought another HPT decided to use it then and there..wee then wiped and there was a streak of blood..thought phew!!!
nothing much happened all day..that night I had really bad back pain..right across my lower back I thought great this is whats goign to happen now ( after each baby my body comes up with some smancy new system for gettign and having AF) never had thsi before..I fell asleep on my side.. I kept having weird dreams and slept on and off.... in the early hours I woke with a crampy pain coming in waves I was forced up to the toilet when I got there a big blob fell out palm size (I looked at it, thought about retrieving it then decided, that there was no point...nothing would ever be done anyway)
I am convinced I MC it was so much like what happened when I lost the baby before my DS..same sensation..as it was happening..the thought was running through...since then the sore boobs have eased and the fertile EWM has gone..there has'nt been much bleeding very light..and still crampy now I am down to watery type loss sorry if thats TMI. I may have to be checked out anyway..there does'nt seem to have been enough of a loss, regardless of what ever happened.

Dh found his request form and has submitted his sample...I'm pretty sure it is coming back with live sperm if so he will be off having another op..if it does'nt I have no idea what happened.. I feel strange and am keeping a close eye on myself, making sure nothing odd crops up..anyway thanks for listening and all your help..I won't be DTD unprotected anytime soon!!!!