Hi Ren (I was in the ttc 1-6 a few months ago)
First bubs was an oops pill baby (sounds horrible but true) and well second took three goes.
If you've been on the pill or had the rod in for a while that can really affect how long it takes to conceive I have a friend Who is on her fourth cycle of trying for her first as well I really hope you catch your eggy soon sending you lots of