The desire to be UTD is so strong and doing my head in. Although i know there is a long list of superficial reasons (money, the kids and thier ages and other stuff) to way against TTC #3.. i just dont care! You know?>
Things have never been perfect for us the 2 times before, but he is so obstanant (s?) to not TTC now.
Atleast he is being very cautious. Im not on the pill, i wnt off it as it was just playing bloody hell with my body... not to mention i always forgot one here or there... So we use condoms, but i hate them and am so sick of them. By the time he gets it on, i really reckon the moment has passed and it then becomes a chore!!!! But he refuse's to DTD wihtout one.... to the point we have argued.. lol but, i must say in the past week he has been a bit lax and has DTD but used the Pull out method which i dont know.... but anyways...
See we had set it for September... but before that had been set for december this year (when our youngest is 18 months), we changed our minds set it for sep 2009 but now we are here the baby bug has just bitten me again... what can i say??? im a woman! lol But he is dead set! ARGH... frustrating... i so undertsand where your coming from... except the missed message would be very annoying for you... Id sit him down if i was you and say it quite bluntly " im going off the pill, if you DONT wnat a baby yet... WEAR A CONDOM... otherwise.. we wil be TTC " :P heheh or something along those lines.... it will prove how serious he is about not wanting to TTC yet!
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